A few things you might be wondering…

You don’t need to read this all at once.
You don’t need to remember any of it.
There’s no way to do this “right.”

This page exists because I find safety in knowing what to expect, and many of my clients do too. Think of this as a window into how I work, what supports me, and where you always have choice.

If knowing helps you relax, I’m glad it’s here.
If not, you can ignore it completely and we’ll figure things out together in real time.

Should I help you when you’re moving me?

This is a common one. Most of the time, helping actually makes my job harder. If I’m moving your body one way and you’re anticipating and moving another, we end up working against each other. Once in a great while I’ll get stuck and ask for help. Otherwise, the best thing for both of us is for you to let go of control. Yes, that’s easier said than done. Just make it an intention to try. There’s no pressure to get it perfect.

What if a limb feels like it’s “in your way”?

You’re welcome to move it. That said, if it’s truly in my way, I’ll move it. And I’ll probably move it again in a few minutes. My work tends to be active and positions change often. If you ever need to adjust because of discomfort, pain, or simply because your mind won’t let it go, please do. I can work with you in any position you’re in.

Do I take my clothes off?

No. We work with clothes on. Wear something you can stretch and move in, and something you’ll feel comfortable wearing while shifting positions. Deep stretches can cause clothes to move. Washington state law requires that no areola, nipple, gluteal clefts (yes, your bum crack), or genitalia be exposed during a session. Please choose clothing that honors this.

Do I need to wear a bra?

No. Be comfortable.

What should I wear?

Generally, the most flexible clothes you own are best. If you’re receiving SargaThai and I have access to skin, I may offer myofascial release. If not, I’ll work more in Thai massage. There isn’t a strict sequence to either one in the way I practice, so wear what you have and what feels good.

Layers are always helpful. The airstream camper can be a little tricky temperature-wise.

Can I pay before our session?

Yes, absolutely.

You can remind me until I get into a rhythm, or you’re welcome to pay via Venmo beforehand. That way you can leave quietly with no post-session conversation or thought required (ha).

Should I talk during the massage?

I’ll be direct, and then come back around to you. I can listen to what your body is telling me better when you’re quiet. Conversation can sometimes pull my attention away from subtle feedback from your body. That said, many people feel more comfortable talking, and I completely honor that. Ask questions. Say what you need.

What I usually do when I receive massage: I get my social time and questions out in the first 10 minutes, then become mostly silent. That helps me unwind and drop fully into the work.

Should I tell you if I like something or don’t?

Yes. Always. Over the years my ability to read bodies has become pretty fine-tuned. Often when someone says they like or dislike something, I’ve already felt it, but I still appreciate the reassurance. If something feels good or needed, I’ll often stay there longer. If something doesn’t, I’ll work around it and gently sneak up on the area instead. That usually works very well.

Can I boss you around?

Ha. Yes. This is your time. I actually enjoy when people name what they need in the moment. It tells me you’re practicing listening to yourself.

That said, there’s a difference between asking for what you need and trying to control everything because the world feels out of control. If something isn’t possible or doesn’t feel aligned on my end, I’ll let you know.

Trust that I’m listening to my needs and honoring my boundaries too.

Final note

This space is built on communication, consent, and flexibility.

You don’t need to perform.
You don’t need to know the answers.
We’ll meet each other where we are.